Girls Aloud Concert: Manchester, England

MOM!!! You will not believe what an amazing two nights I have had! Melissa and I ventured up to Manchester on the train, which was a laugh in and of itself as we decided to sit in between the cars for some reason.

Clearly, Melissa was enjoying herself. We made it to the Travelodge we were staying in with just enough time to freshen up and head to the arena! We planned this thoroughly and booked a hotel within walking distance to where the concert was being held. We wanted to get there early as we had standing tickets instead of seated tickets, so we wanted to ensure that we would get good spots close to the stage. We waited outside of the MEN (Manchester Evening News) Arena for a while before finally the doors were opened. Once we got inside we were placed in a line ("queue," as they call it here) and given wrist bands to denote that we were standing. Eventually the second set of doors was opened and we were allowed to go down to the floor where we would be standing. All of the ushers were screaming, "No running! No running!" as they wanted to prevent a stampede, but we were fortunate enough to power walk quick enough to secure spots right by the stage. Their set had a catwalk that extended right off of the front of the stage into the middle of the floor. We were able to get close enough that we were stood right at the end of the cat walk with only one row of people standing in front of us. This meant that when Girls Aloud would walk down the cat walk we would literally be a matter of feet away from them. So cool, right?

Amelia Lily was the opening act, which was a nice surprise because I really enjoy her music as well. She was a lot better than I expected her to be. Really strong live vocals. I was impressed. Finally, after an elaborate countdown, Girls Aloud made their grand entrance, being lowered from the ceiling on a large platform that said, "GIRLS ALOUD," in bright shiny lights. The whole concert was a blast, and I could not get over how close we were to them! They sang all of their greatest hits almost entirely in chronological order from 2002-2012 (the tour itself was celebrating their ten years together). Everything was perfect--the costuming, stage design, lighting, pyrotechnics, everything. At one point they performed a song wearing the angel wings and other costuming straight from the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. So cool, right? Halfway through the show they rode through the air on their Girls Aloud platform directly over our heads to a smaller stage in the middle of the arena, which was really cool as well. The encore of the show was really special. They rose up from the floor of the stage and behind them was a video montage of clips and pictures from the last ten years. It was a really nice touch. They shot feathers out of cannons as part of the grand finale, and one floated right into my hand! I kept it as a nice souvenir. Speaking of souvenirs...I went a little overboard and got myself a t-shirt, a poster, a program, and a bracelet. I know I'm a huge dork, but they're my favorite band, so it's ok. I seriously had such an amazing night, Mom. I couldn't believe that I actually saw them live and from so close. They were real people standing in front of me--not just figures from magazines and television. I'm so glad that Melissa was able to come with me as well. I know she had fun too (maybe not as much fun as me, but she certainly did have fun).

 

 

Melissa and I walked around downtown Manchester until we found ourselves at the Hardrock Cafe, where we ate dinner. I had some rather tasty pasta and we had a celebratory cocktail to top off a perfect evening. Manchester was really pretty by night, and I wish I would have been able to see more of it.

 

We returned to our hotel and crashed for the night. Melissa had to leave early the this morning to return to Sheffield for class. I stayed because once again I am a huge dork and I went to see the concert for a second time. No shame. This time I had a seated ticket, so it was a different experience. I ended up sitting next to a group of ladies in their 40s or 50s out for a girls night. They were so cute, and I hope me and my friends do cute things like that when I'm older. The concert was just as amazing the second time around, even though I was by myself and not as close. I'm currently laying in bed in the hotel still riding my high from the excitement of the past two nights. I think I will be floating pretty high for a while. This will certainly be hard to top. Time for me to go to sleep before I head back to Sheffield in the morning. Love you lots, Mama!

London, England: Day 2

Good morning, Mommy! I had every intent to wake up early this morning to go watch the crossing of the guard at Buckingham Palace, but my body had a different plan. I was knocked out and didn't wake up in time. I'm a little bummed, but it just means I'll have to come back to England, right? I know I'll be back.

I started my day and made my way to Buckingham Palace. I told the Queen you say hello. She sends her regards. She certainly has a nice house. I think Dad and I should look into moving into a similar property. I think it would suit Bella cat. She is a princess after all. In all seriousness though, the palace was really spectacular. The guards were in their places not moving a muscle, some were on horseback, and others marched back and forth.

(Terrible picture, but somehow I walked away without any good pictures of the palace. What was I thinking?)

After leaving the palace, I was walking back to the Underground station when I noticed a storefront with a giant Filipino flag on the front! I had to stop and go inside. I enjoyed some pancit for lunch and talked with the owners about my time in the Philippines and how much I love their country and culture. It was nice to have some Philippines in England.

I made my way down to the waterfront, enjoying a seemingly rare sunny day along the River Thames, and decided to take a ride on the London Eye (the giant ferris wheel). It was pretty cool--you could see miles and miles of London from up at the top. There were computer screens in side each of the pods where it would tell you what each of the landmarks were that you could see.

My London Eye ticket came as a packaged deal discount rate with a ticket to Madamme Toussad's wax museum. I had never been to one before and Melissa suggested it, so I figured why not? It was enjoyable. I saw the likes of Audrey Hepburn, Obama, the Royal Family, Madonna, David and Victoria Beckham, Cheryl Cole, and many others. I'm not sure I'd pay to go again, but it was a fun thing to do once. Here I am with Audrey. Remember when I dressed up as her for Halloween in 8th grade? You even took me to the hair salon to get my hair done like hers.

I found my way to Trafalgar Square, which in line with everything else in London, was also impressive. The National Gallery was right there, and that was nice to have the opportunity to see some art for free. It was especially nice for my wallet, as doing anything in London is pricy.

Last, but not least, no trip to London would be complete without some shopping! Everyone in London is so fashionable and I had some catching up to do. I found a couple really cute items at H&M that I really liked. I thought they were very London-style and not something I'd immediately find in the US. While we do have H&M at home, the clothes are different. I was happy with my finds (especially because they didn't blow the bank!). I made my way around the corner to the famous high-end department store Harrods. I was told I was not allowed to go to London without going to Harrods, and it did not disappoint. Floors upon floors of ridiculously expensive designer items. It was like a maze--I never knew where I was, which I think was the point because then people end up buying things when they can't find their way out. I bought a teddy bear as the Harrods teddy bear is an icon. There was an entire room dedicated to the bears, and I chose a tan furry one wearing a Union Jack shirt. I thought about getting the ballerina bear, but I figured the Union Jack one was more fitting for my trip.

By the time I made it outside it was dark and time for me to head to King's Cross Station to catch my train back to Sheffield. It was a fabulous two days in London--really, a dream come true. I know I merely dipped my toes in the city, but I will most definitely be back.

Oh, and how could I forget:

 

Of course I saw the quintessential red telephone box. Remember when you bought me a London telephone box charm for my charm bracelet when I was younger? You knew how badly I wanted to visit London.

I am back in Sheffield now at Melissa's house. I am exhausted, but fortunately I get to sleep in in the morning while Melissa has class. Tomorrow afternoon we are heading to Manchester for the Girls Aloud concert!! I am so excited, Mom. I can barely contain my excitement! But for now, it is time for this girl to crash, night night, Mama!

London, England: Day 1

London, Mom!!! I'm really here! I know you're just as excited as I am!

The journey from San Francisco to England was a long one, but I survived. I flew SFO to Chicago to Copenhagen to Manchester. I make sacrifices to travel cheap. Melissa picked me up at the Manchester airport and I was so happy to see her beautiful, smiling face. We grabbed some dinner at the airport as we had time to kill before our train. The two of us opted for a "jacket potato" (their term for a baked potato) dinner and we caught up over our food. After an hour or so we caught the train to Sheffield (where she lives for school), which took us about an hour.

I met all three of her housemates, Amy, Clare, and Jess, and they were all extremely nice. Immediately upon setting my bags down I was offered a "cuppa" (tea), and I delightedly obliged. It isn't just a stereotype! They really do drink tea all the time! The proper British way--with milk and sugar. That's the way I like my tea as well. It must stem from Papa's Welsh influence.

Due to poor planning, bright an early the next morning I headed down to London. If I would have known at the time this was how the itinerary would have played out I would have flown into London instead of Manchester, but I don't mind. Gotta go with the flow when traveling. Melissa was unable to join me as she had exams to study for, so I ventured off on my own.The train pulled into King's Cross Station in London...you know, the one from Harry Potter! I debated trying to enter Platform 9 3/4, but I figured I'd spare myself the concussion.

I purchased a "tube" (another time for the London Underground) ticket and found my way to my hostel. Ironically, my hostel was just off of the Paddington station. I saw this as a little sign from you, as dad always called you Paddington bear. The bear was named Paddington because in the story he was found sitting at that exact Underground station.

My hostel was called the "Dolphin Inn," which I found to be hilarious, but the amenities were decent and it was cheap by London standards. Everything in London is ridiculously expensive. Fortunately, the exchange rate between the US Dollar and the British Pound has decreased in the past week, so it's not as bad as it could have been.

I set out for my day of sightseeing and the first place I went was Westminster Abbey! Oh my gosh, Mom, it was incredible! I had no idea how enormous it was! So many important British individuals are buried inside, including members of the royal family, scientists, musicians, poets, artists, etc. Absolutely incredible and so ornate. I spent a good hour just wandering around the inside.

 

Inside the Abbey I stopped at the cafe afterward and enjoyed myself a nice cuppa. I've really taken to enjoying tea since I've been here. Never realized before how much I liked it. I will definitely have to start drinking it back at home.

Next, I wandered around the Parliament buildings (all very impressive), and finally I made my way to Big Ben, the famous clock tower, and although I didn't go inside (in fact, I don't even know if you're allowed inside) it was really cool. Big Ben is so iconic, and I always love getting to see such important things live in person.

I hopped back on the tube with the intention of going to Baker Street to see 221 B. Baker Street (Sherlock Holmes' house) because I knew Dad would love that, but I didn't quite make it there. I did make it to Baker Street, but not to 221 B. I found myself at a ticket broker for the West End shows. The West End is London's equivalent of Broadway, and it is probably the most prestigious theatre district outside of Broadway as well. I figured I would see what shows were playing as it had been far too long since I'd seen a show. I miss my days of ushering at the Aronoff and getting to see all of the musicals for free. Upon learning what was currently running, there was no doubt it my mind as to what I had to see--"Viva Forever!", the Spice Girls musical! Remember when Dad got me tickets to the Spice Girls reunion tour back in high school? That was such a fun trip, and I knew I had to go see the musical. Regardless of the quality of the content of the show, I knew it would be a ton of fun. Instead of going to find Sherlock, I bought my ticket and headed straight back to Paddington station to get changed and head out for the show! I will note, however, that the Baker Street station was covered in tiles with Sherlock's profile in silhouette. Pretty neat.

Viva Forever! was playing at the Picadilly Theatre in the Picadilly Circus area. I wish I would have gotten to explore Picadilly Circus some more as it seemed like a really buzzing area, but I only managed to pass through for the show. The outside of the theatre had Viva Forever! projected onto the front with a Union Jack logo behind it. I was excited before I even set foot inside.

The musical itself was a blast. I found it to be hilariously entertaining the whole way though, not to mention that I already knew all of the songs in the show (obviously, as they were all Spice Girls songs). The storyline was goofy and I don't see it winning any Tony's anytime soon, but I had a blast.

I am back at my hostel and about to pass out. It's been an amazing, amazing day, Mom. London's been a dream of mine forever, and it has finally come true. I'm floating on cloud nine. Goodnight, Sweet Mama.

Staci and Deb's Wedding

What a beautiful day, Mama! I don’t think Staci and Deb’s wedding could have been more perfect if they tried. Really, really lovely.

They held their ceremony outdoors at sunset on top of a cliff on a golf course. It was stunning. The lighting could not have been more perfect.

Isn't it stunning? Deb and Staci entered from opposite sides, neither having seen the others dress ahead of time. They both looked like absolute princesses and the look on their faces when they saw one another could just melt your heart. The ceremony itself was short but sweet and full of love. When they processed out, officially married, all of the guests were given sparklers to light and wave to congratulate them. I thought it was such a neat touch.

The reception was held inside the banquet hall just next to where the ceremony was held. They served a heavy tapas for dinner, and I found it all to be quite tasty. Their wedding cake was the biggest surprise of all! In fact, there was no wedding cake! Instead, they had a cupcake van! Think ice cream truck, but instead full of gourmet cupcakes! It was so cute, so clever, and so Californian. I loved it. Sometimes it's fun to break away from the norm, right?

One thing I thought was so kind and so special was how they really incorporated Deb's mom and Staci's uncles who had passed away. They made sure to have them be included in their special day even though they couldn't be there physically. I definitely want to do something similar for you when I eventually get married. I know you'd like that.

Another highlight of the night was getting to reunite with some others from Semester at Sea, including Drew (my "boss" from my work study position). It was nice to see him and catch up. Overall, Ligaya and I enjoyed ourselves, getting our groove on on the dance floor. The whole event was full of love and laughter. I was so happy to have been a part of their special night. I cannot think of two more deserving individuals to have had such a beautiful gathering to celebrate their love and life together. Congratulations, Staci and Deb. I can't wait to celebrate your many milestones of anniversaries to come.

Time to get myself to bed now, I'm heading to England in the morning, Mama! It's been my dream since I was 12 and now it's finally coming true!!! Next time I write to you I will be in Europe!

San Francisco, California

Hello, Mama! Greetings from California! It has been a whirlwind of a few days, but an amazing one. I was fortunate enough to be able to fly out here for a trifecta of good things. First and most obviously it is great to be out here to spend time with Aunt Muffy and the rest of the family. I always enjoy getting to spend time with them. It is especially nice to see them without you here. Being with them manages to fill a tiny bit of the void in my heart. Beyond that I feel so fortunate to have had the opportunity to come out this way for Staci and Deb’s big day! I was excited enough to be on the invite list, but it’s really wonderful that I’ve been able to make it work for me to actually attend the ceremony. As if those two reasons for being in California weren’t already exciting enough, I got to top it off by spending time with my dear friend, Ligaya, by bringing her as my plus one to the wedding! I have missed her dearly and it seems like forever ago that we were together in the Philippines. You would love her, Mom. Staci and Deb too. I’ve got incredible people in my life. I’m lucky to be surrounded by such wonderful people.

My visit to California began, as always, with a trip to my favorite restaurant, Reagent Thai, for some pad thai. Delicious. The next morning Aunt Muffy took me on a shopping adventure to find me an outfit for the wedding. After many stores and many failed attempts, I felt like I was not going to find anything special enough and simply have to resort to wearing something I had brought with me. We decided to make one last stop to a cute boutique called Ambiance on 24^th street where she has taken me many times before and after trying on about 10 dresses, I found the one! It is a really cute short navy blue dress with long sleeves. The dress is made of lace, and I love it! I know you would too! I’d have to say, though, as much as I love the dress the hit of the day was the pair of sparkly gold pumps were managed to find for $10! They are very bling-bling and slightly over the top, but I love them and they’ll be nice to offset my monochromatic dress.

Staci invited me to come to a wine tasting out in Saratoga that was just for closest friends and family today. I felt honored that I made the cut. I brought Aunt Muffy along as she and Staci had met last summer and really liked one another. It was an enjoyable afternoon. The wine was nice and it was also neat to get to meet some of Staci and Deb’s nearest and dearest. In the evening we went to pick up Ligaya from the BART station as she was traveling into San Francisco from Berkeley. We both screamed and had one of those dorky reunited moments you see in movies of screaming and hugging and jumping. It was great. We all enjoyed a nice dinner together. Ligaya fit right into the family and that made me happy (not that I was surprised).

We are currently reminiscing about our time in the Philippines and listening to music. In the morning we will be doing some last minute errands to prepare for both the wedding and my trip to ENGLAND! Talk to you soon, Mama! Time for me to go spend some more time with my dear friend :)

Week Four in the Philippines

Hi, Mama. Sorry it has been such a long time since I've updated. I've just been so busy and so drained (physically and emotionally) to sit down and write.

Things are amazing at Regional Haven. I am so madly in love with the work I'm doing there and with the women I'm working with. Their optimism and sincerity inspires me everyday. I love being greeted every morning by 15 smiling faces yelling, "Good morning, Ate Alissa!" You know that unconditional love you receive from a dog when you walk in the door? The kind of love that our kitty cat refuses to give us? That's how I feel when I walk into Regional Haven every morning. It's wonderful.

the activities have been going really well. They seem to be really enjoying the crafts, games, etc. that I have been planning out for them. Their enthusiasm and excitement is incredible validation for me. I have also been journaling with them daily, and they really enjoy that as well. I like to give them prompts that make them think (eg. If you had three wishes, what would they be and why?). Sometimes I give them silly prompts just to make them laugh and have a little fun (eg. Who is your celebrity crush and why?). I love reading their answers. Some of them can write really well in English. Others don't know any English, and I have to have Ate Mary Ann translate them for me when I go home in the evening.

Things have been going wonderfully with my homestay as well. I absolutely adore my host family. I love coming home after a long day and just chatting with Ate Mary Ann. She never fails to put a smile on my face. Another member of the family who never fails to put a smile on my face is Budoy, my crazy little brother, who is quite possibly the cutest and funniest little boy in the entire world.

Case in point:

He cracks me up everyday.

I do find it interesting living with a 6 year old boy because I babysit a 6 year old boy at home. It's neat to me to compare and contrast the two who are the exact same age, but growing up on opposite sides of the world. You'd be surprised the universal similarities that exist.

Yesterday we took a day trip visiting various project sites within Volunteer for the Visayans. One main area that we visited was the Dumpsite Project. Poor families send their children out into the dump collecting plastic and cans that can be turned in for money. One kilo of plastic only equals 7 pesos (roughly 16 cents, 42 pesos = $1). The Dumpsite Project allows for the sponsorship of these children to get them out of the dump and into schools. The families of these children often don't send their kids to school because they need them to search for plastic all day. It's unbelievably tragic. Some of these children are barefoot and the rest are just wearing flip flops digging through the dump. They are so susceptible to potentially life threatening diseases.

When we first arrived, during the drive up to the dump we were immediately hit with a wall of odor. No description could do justice to the experience of hitting that wall. It was intense. When we pulled up and got out of the jeepney, we saw the children in action. A dump truck would pull up and the children would all run to dig to get the plastic before the others. Witnessing this was one of the most powerful experiences of my life. My heart was so broken. I felt so humbled and helpless. I got back on the jeepney and tried with everything I had in myself not to cry. I am so thankful for everything I have in my life. Everyday I see more and more what I take for granted and how truly blessed I am in the life that I live.

I think this picture speaks more than a thousand words.

On a lighter note, VFV hired a private jeepney to drive us around for the day to visit the different placements. I don't think I've talked much about the jeepneys. They are the local form of transportation, and they are absolutely hilarious. They are giant metal jeeps leftover from WWII, and each jeepney is painted and decorated really ridiculously. They cram about as many people as possible into the jeepneys, and when they can't fit any more inside, people hang off the back or sit on the roof. It is completely unsafe, and would not be legal in the US. It's all part of the charm of the Philippines though. The way the jeepneys work is you stand anywhere on the road and flag them down like you would a taxi. They'll pick you up and then when you want to get off you yell, "para!" and they'll pull over to let you off. There are no designated stops like there are with buses in the US. I'm going to miss the convenience of the jeepneys when I go home. Anyway...they hired a private jeepney for our day trip, and somehow one of the volunteers, Richard (Australian guy with long red hair), talked the jeepney driver into letting him drive! I was so scared for my life! I did make it out alive though, fortunately! He drove the jeepney for about 15-20 minutes! Driving in the Philippines is not like driving in the US...the lanes are merely suggestions. People weave in and out and drive on the opposite side of the road all the time. It was scary having him drive, but it was rather hilarious because every time we passed someone he would honk the horn and wave. Nobody knew how to react to a white man with a long red ponytail driving a jeepney. It's just unheard of. It was hilarious seeing their faces when he drove by.

Tomorrow is one of my very closest friends, Melissa's, last day. One thing that is very difficult is that volunteers are continuously coming and going. With Semester at Sea, we were all in it together the whole way through. With this, we all are here for different lengths of time starting and ending at different times. In fact, most of the volunteers who were here when I first came have already left, and there are a lot of new volunteers. I'm going to be really sad when Melissa leaves. It's going to be so weird without her here.

Last night a large group of the volunteers went out to a club. I haven't really gone out at all the entire time I've been here, and I figured I would go out because it was Melissa's last night out. Well...I quickly realized why I haven't been going out. I was having a good time, and suddenly the wall hit me smack in the face; the wall that is the reality of the nightmare I am living in. This wall hits me from time to time and when it does I shut down. I can't bring myself to have a good time; I can't bring myself to enjoy myself. Naturally, I broke down and started crying. I felt so bad because the last thing I wanted to do was bring my friends down during a fun night out, but I am lucky to have such wonderful friends, especially Melissa and Ligaya, who kept telling me that my well being was more important to them than a night out. The two of them are always there for me when I need to cry (or laugh), and I appreciate it so much. I've been having a really hard time lately, Mom. The wall seems to be hitting me more and more often (probably because the reality of me going home to an empty house is getting closer and closer). I've caught myself withdrawing from social activities lately. I guess that's just what I need to do right now though. I'm trying to be as normal as I can, but there's only so much I can do. Melissa and Ligaya told me that the fact that I'm able to get out of bed every morning, get myself ready, and be strong for the women at the center every single day is amazing, and that they think I'm doing incredibly well. A lot of people keep telling me that. It's just hard though when I feel like I'm imploding on the inside. The truth is though that the only time I feel somewhat strong is when I'm at Regional Haven. I think the women are helping me more than I'm helping them. It really is a blessing.

 I'm trying to hang in there as best as I can, Mom. Keep watching over me. I need you more and more everyday. I love you so much. I'll post a bunch of pictures later today or tomorrow.

Recharging

Well, Mom, I decided not to go on the excursion this weekend. I ended up just breaking down Friday night, and I knew that I needed to spend some down time this weekend. I'm glad that I made that decision  instead of pushing myself to go on the excursion. I needed this weekend to recharge.

There was an all day blackout yesterday throughout Tacloban because they were doing maintenance on the power lines...so that meant no fans. It certainly was hot. I decided to go to Robinson's (the mall) to use the internet and try to keep cool. All of Tacloban had the same idea, and Robinson's was packed.

After spending several hours catching up on emails and doing some research, I headed home to do my laundry. I am never going to complain about doing laundry again. I spent over an hour washing my laundry by hand in the front yard. It's the little things we take for granted that I'm becoming more and more aware of. Ate Mary Ann helped me with my laundry, which was greatly appreciated. I do have to say though that I've lost any sense of modesty now that I've had somebody else wash my underwear by hand. It was rather embarrassing. Just as I was getting over it, Budoy, my six year old brother, started picking up my underwear and going, "Look at this! Hahahaha!" Oh geeze.

To thank Ate Mary Ann, I took her and the kids out for dinner. She loves spaghetti carbonara, but she doesn't get to eat it very much, so I thought that would be the perfect way to thank her. We went to Cafe Lucia for dinner, where I have been many nights, but I have never eaten their food. I was so pleasantly surprised at how delicious ("marasa" in Waray Waray) it was. I ordered Soy Ginger Milkfish ("Bangus"), which is the national fish of the Philippines, and my new favorite fish. I really hope I can find it at home because it is so good.

After dinner we took the kids to the carnival, and I told them that they could each pick one ride they wanted to go on. We had a lot of fun. It made me so happy to see the kids so happy, and I know Ate Mary Ann appreciated it as well. I really enjoy doing nice things for people when I can.

Today I have been hanging out at home with my family, playing UNO, looking at pictures, singing karaoke, etc. My friends get back from the excursion around 4pm, so I will probably do something with them tonight. It's been nice just having some time to myself this weekend. I definitely needed it.

I miss you, Mom. So, so much.